Section IV  Massey Appendices One Maryland Massey Family by George Langford, Jr. 1901-1996
©Cullen G. Langford and George Langford, III, 2010


Appendix XXXI
43.Nina Eleanor (Massey) Hough: Autobiographical Notes


Note.  These notes were dictated by 43.Nina Massey Hough for her son, Warwick Massey Hough; probably c. 1920.  I quote them verbatim.
I was born at Sarcoxie, Jasper County, Missouri, April 12th, 1840.  My Christian name was Nina Eleanor Massey.
My father's name was Benjamin Franklin Massey, who was born in Kent County, Maryland.  He died in St Louis, Missouri in 1879 and was buried at Jefferson City, Missouri.
My father's parents were Benjamin Massey and Elizabeth Massey.  (See letters which I have.)
My mother's name was Maria Hawkins Withers who was born in Warrenton, Fauquier County, Virginia, and died in 1864 at Boonville, Missouri, where she was buried.
My mothers parents were Daniel Withers and Eliza Hawkins Withers, who came to Missouri about 1837 and settled in Cooper County.
My mother and father met at Boonville, Missouri, he at that time living at Fayette.  She was married when she was 17 years old, and went with him to Jasper County, Missouri to live; married in 1839.
My father was in public life in Jefferson City as a Senator and Representative and Chief Clerk of the House at different times in his life.  In 1857 was elected Secretary of State and was again re-elected and serving two years at the time the War broke out.  He went out of the State with the Confederate army.  I had two brothers run off and join the army.  I was married two weeks before the war broke out.
My father and mother had ten children: Benjamin U., Julian P., Clarence R., Logan Lee, Frank R., Scott Withers, Eliza Adelaide and Maria Louise: all are now dead with the exception of Eliza Adelaide (now Mrs. D. B. Holmes of Kansas City) and myself.
My mother died at age of 43, my father at age 69.  I lived on a farm until I was ten years old on what was called Spring River Valley, half way between Mt. Vernon and Sarcoxie.  Attended school at Boonville, Missouri, until my father was elected Secretary of State in 1857, staying with my grandmother, Mrs. Pierce, my mother's mother, when I moved to Jefferson City in 1858, where and when I met Judge Warwick Hough in 1858.  I was 17 and he 21 years old.
My father found it impossible to rent a house at Jefferson City and as Gov. Polk had been elected to the Senate, Lieutenant Governor Jackson offered father the Governor's mansion, as no one was occupying it.
I married Judge Warwick Hough on May 30th, 1861 during what was known as the Price and Harney agreement, Gen. Harney representing the Federal Government and Gen. Sterling Price representing the Confederate Government.  Two weeks after our marriage, Blair and Lyon's with five or six thousand troops came to Jefferson City and took charge of State Governments.  The small force under Gen. Price retreating to Boonville, Mo., where they were followed and had a small fight, Price's forces retreating into the interior of the State, and for seven months I had not heard from Mr. Hough.  In the meantime the army organized and came up to Lexington, where the Federal Government had a fortified position; and Price had organized his men and came back and captured the whole outfit.
I rejoined your father at Osceola, Mo., and remained in the South during the war, except for two months I spent in prison when I came through St. Louis to see my mother in 1864, who then resided at Boonville, Missouri.  After being released from prison they would not allow me to go to see my mother and banished me to the South.  I located at Columbus, Mississippi, where my eldest son, Warwick M. was born.  I met with much kindness and attention from Southern people at close of the War.