Section IV  Massey Appendices One Maryland Massey Family by George Langford, Jr. 1901-1996
©Cullen G. Langford and George Langford, III, 2010


Appendix XXVI
  48.Nicholas Massey: Wives


There is considerable confusion as to whether 48.Nicholas Massey had one wife or two wives; and additional confusion as to name or names.
Source
J.G. Massey records:
"Nicholas Massey moved to North Carolina in 1770.  Wrote his brother Elijah, 4 Jun.1774, saying his wife Henrietta died 4 Dec.1773; that his daughters Hannah and Sarah had married; and that he was then left with three sons and five daughters."
1
But J.G. Massey, in these same notes records:
"In his letter dated Rowan Co., Nor. Car., 4 Jun.1774, addressed to his brother Elijah Massey, in Kent Co., Maryland, he refers to his wife, Catherine, who died 4 Dec.1773; to her children; and names two of them, Hannah and Sarah, as having married."
2
These uncharacteristically conflicting names of the wife who died 4 Dec.1773 initiates our confusion.

Wilbur Fisk Massey wrote:
" ... Nicholas Massey, the brother of Elijah Massey ... moved to North Carolina about 1770.  As evidence of this, the Maryland Masseys have letters written by Nicholas Massey from Rowan Co., N.C. to his brother Elijah in Md."
This statement seems to confirm the existence of the 1774 [letter - GL,III, ed.] but unfortunately names no names.  The letter seems to have existed, all right, but it is not known to have survived, so exactly what his wife's name was can not be checked.
6
There was a Kent Co., Md. Deed dated 1765 that reads:
"Cath. & N. Massey to Joseph Massey;"
a small and shaky piece of evidence that Nicholas Massey had a wife Catherine, if indeed "N. Massey" is our Nicholas Massey.

[That deed (DD:2:157) actually says:
October 9, 1765: Joseph Massey, farmer of Kent County, buys for £200 a 100 acre tract called Partnership from Catharine Massey, spinster, and Nicholas Massey, farmer, and Henrietta, his wife, also of Kent County. Courses: Beginning at a small Spanish oak marked with nine notches standing near the head of a drain that proceeds out of a branch called Pudding Branch running North two hundred and forty eight  perches and South thirty one degrees West one hundred and eight perches thence South twenty two degrees West forty two perches and South fourteen degrees West one hundred and twenty four perches thence with a straight line to the beginning tree containing one hundred acres. Witnesses: James MacLachlan and Samuel Thompson.  Acting for the Crown: Mssrs. MacLachlan, Thompson and Nicholson; Kent County Clerk is Dennis Dulany.
Abstracted by GL III, ed.
So Father was correct in his ultimate conclusion that Henrietta is the correct wife. Note added 6 Jan.2016, GL III, ed.]
3
Quoting:
"A descendant who has been of great aid; Mrs. Edwin McMann, 4115 N.W. 40th., Oklahoma City, Okla.; Judge Massey notes:  "Nicholas m.1st. Henrietta _______, who died 4 Dec.1773.  By 1774 letter to brother Elijah Eleazer, he told of his wife's death and stated that his daughters Hannah and Sarah had married and that he was left with 3 sons and 5 daughters.  He may have married afterward and had son Ebenezer, for census show his birth between 1770-1780."
5; 4
So, now we have Catherine and Henrietta as candidates for Nicholas Massey's first wife.  In view of J.G. Massey's statements; first that Catherine was the wife's name; and then again that her name was Henrietta; we are left dangling.  But, Mrs. McMann, who is Judge Massey's valued source, says her name was Henriettta; and I am inclined to string along and agree with her.

As to a second wife, as the mother of Ebenezer Massey, born between 1770 and 1780, we have very slim evidence:  let's say more likely than unlikely; but we have no clue as to her name.



Sources

Page
1
J.G. Massey: 1908 Notes: 1936 to GL,Jr., p.1.
p.0025
2
Ibid: p.8.
p.0032
3
Kent Co., Md.: Land Records: Deeds: Liber DD No.3, folio 157.
p.0087
4
Judge Massey: 23 Aug.1976 Chart, p.17.
p.0421
5
Ibid: 2 Oct.1975 Chart, p.5.
p.0196
6
Wilbur Fisk Massey: Letter 25 Jan.1908: to J.G. Massey.
p.0038